Life at Campus: Your Guide to Thriving in College
Starting college is an exciting milestone. To help new students navigate this journey, sharing 5 things to start your "Life at Campus". The aim is to prepare you and help you steer in the right direction.
Here are five key areas to focus on during your time at college:
1. Managing Freedom and Independence
With newfound freedom, you might feel empowered to make your own decisions—whether it's skipping lectures, eating whatever you want, or agreeing to things you’re not comfortable with. It's important to remember that your decision-making abilities are still developing. Scientific studies indicate that our rational thinking matures around the age of 25. Therefore, try to delay major decisions to allow for more objective and less emotion-driven choices.
2. Managing Your Parents
Your parents might be more worried about you during this first year. They have concerns about your new friends, your company, your attendance, and the influences around you. To ease their worries, share more about your college experiences. Involving them in your journey by being honest and transparent can help build trust and reduce their concerns.
3. Asking for Help
College life can be overwhelming. The pressure to look good, fit in, and be likable can take a toll on your emotional well-being. It's important to talk about your struggles with friends or family and seek help when needed. Remember, you are not alone—many students face similar challenges. Opening up can help you realize that others share your concerns. Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
4. Making New Friends
Starting anew with friendships can seem daunting. Everyone is looking to connect in the first six months, so be open to meeting new people. Identify what qualities you value in friends, which will help you choose the right group. While looks and dress might initially attract you, focus on the character and qualities of a person. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, movies, career ideas, and family background to get to know them better.
5. Challenging Yourself
College is an opportunity to develop "multiplier skills" that will benefit you throughout your life, such as confidence, communication, learning orientation, decision-making, and curiosity. Take advantage of the platform college offers by asking questions in class, participating in extracurricular activities, and exploring the library. Push yourself to become the best version of yourself and reflect on your learnings to turn them into lasting skills.
By focusing on these areas, you can make the most of your college experience. Avoid getting lost in superficial activities that don't add value to your life or health. Embrace this journey, and you’ll come out stronger, wiser, and better prepared for the future.
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